Head Man Display

I thought maybe a larger round table compared to the other dining tables (like a table of 10) that included myself, my husband, our parents/grandparents and maybe the minister. I think a head table puts you on display while you're eating and I'm not comfortable with that. The best man could still stand to give his speech but could be seated at the next table over.

Anyone have any good ideas for an alternative to a head table?

My man is not the type who displays emotion very often, if at all. He is very physically affectionate, with lots of hugs and gentle kisses. However, he does not have a romantic bone in his body, as it were. I am very much a romantic, and like to give him little surprises out of the blue - for example, yesterday he let me know he had a bad day at work, so I travelled for over an hour to make sure I could give him a six pack of his favourite beer before he headed home from work. I care about him a lot - he just seems really dense sometimes in that he doesn't think about doing similar things for me. He cares for me in his own way - for example, when I said (in random conversation) that muscled arms turned me on, he started lifting weights to build up his arms. He's been doing it solidly ever since (around 6 months now), and enjoys showing me the results. Because he doesn't do traditionally romantic things for me, does this mean he cares for me any less?